I feel like every parent has a different way of parenting and I think it’s nice to have diversity as long as it’s healthy and kind
unfortunately as an INFJ personality, I do feel like it’s part of my responsibility to help others feel better, fit in, not be unhappy, etc, etc. And that is why after being out with people and feeling like a “chameleon” I like to be alone to de-compress while I sort out my thoughts for my day, and knitting and spinning yarn is an excellent way to do that.
Yes, healthy and kind, we all know it when we see it even if we can’t describe it.
Know what I mean?
Yes, I found that the more I help people, the more I need to decompress. I think for me, this is where having good boundaries come in. Otherwise those peoples needs will drown me, or I get ugly, which is of no use to anyone, including me.
Aw man, reality just hit real hard for after reading this. Just answered a lot of questions I had about myself.