How are you really doing?

Hey all I know that we all sometimes lie and say “I’m doing great” when actually you are having a horrible day so I wanted to check in today and see how everyone was. I’ll start:
I’ve had kind of a rollercoaster day as I would call it so my emotions and everything have been everywhere.

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If youd like, i can give you a hug :))

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That just made my day!:blush:

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Actually, that goes for everyone eho replies to oliviad post! If youd like a hug, here is one <33

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if im being honest, not too great, not horrible though. I had a few pets pass in the past few months and its just now hitting that ill never see them again. Sorry if i just brought down the good vibes :,)

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Well my usual responce to how i am is im ok. But i usally mean it like im not bad but it also not the greatest day of my life ykwim. If its a normal chill day ill say that but in rare cases i will use it to cover how i really feel and just dont want to say anything. But i have been pretty good these few days summer break as been doing me well and im just chilling fr. (Rn I’m watching Totally Spies so im good)

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Awwww, I’d love to give huge hugs too​:hugs:🩵:smiling_face_with_three_hearts: The past week has been incredibly hard for me honestly, and I’ve felt so much like I’ve been slipping away and will lose myself. Yesterday was the first day in a week that I didn’t cry by myself all day. Today has been a little better, and I dont feel like disappearing, so I guess I’ll take that!

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physically, i could be better i’ve been having a few breathing problems but other than that my body is doing good. mentally i’m doing much better than i have before, i’m much happier and i have a support system in case i go through a rough patch but overall i’m doing well! have a good day all🩷

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Yeah… losing a pet is probably one of the worst things someone can go through. I understand how you feel and if you need to talk I’m here. That goes for anyone else who needs to talk or feels alone I’m always listening.

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That amazing! I find when you are in these good places you should be celebrating these wins and be proud of yourself and how you are doing for that day, that hour, or even that minute.

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I know how it feels to lose yourself. But the thing is it kinda is impossible. As much as it feels like you are not doing enough or being who you want to be there still will be a tiny bit of the real you in you and you can find that bit through friends, family, god, your pets, just all of your surroundings. And you WILL someday feel like yourself again. When I found myself again I had a new idea of who I was and who god wanted me to be.

Sorry for the religious stuff I just know @YarningHeart is a fellow believer in Christ so I thought I could share this

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Oh no, im so sorry that happened… prsying for you and your family <33

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Oh I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope that everyone around him (including you) is safe and doing the best emotionally (that doesn’t mean not grieving) they can do after he has passed. :blue_heart:

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Tysm guys ill ne ok its just im worried about my mom. He was on her side of the family.

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I hope that your breathing problems get better and that it’s nothing too serious. And I am so glad that you have a support system! I’m still trying to figure out mine. But its great that you have that available and you can use those resources!

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thank you so much! i’m hopefully getting looked at soon and evaluated for asthma! i hope you find a good support system 🩷

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Glad to hear your gonna (hopefully) get better! ^^

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Bro u just read my life lol
I always say im ok ehhhh
But
No im not fine rn lol i feel like my leg and arm are broken cuz i got trampled on by a cow lol

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Oh no! Im so srry

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thanks, i usually dont get this upset, but i never remember a time in my life where i didnt have this duck, and then one of my birds died last week of something very preventible, it messed me up for whatever reason

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