I know this is off topic (not about crochet ) but I really need help

[sunsetdayzz]

So please don’t flag this post because I just want some advice because I have this half friend and she has her own friend group and I have mine but she sometimes comes to my group to hang and that but I don’t really like her because she told me she doesn’t like to talk rude about people but the next day she was and I had done so much for her ( I EVEN CROCHETED HER A MAKEUP POUCH AND SHE DOESNT SEE ME AS A FRIEND) and also she came to my house and then she made a lot of noise and then my neighbour came and we were both really scared but we didn’t open the door and I lied to my parents that I made the noise and I got in trouble BUT THERES MORE , her friend wasn’t at school and me and MY friends were going home but in school she asked me to come with her to but food and I said no because I needed to get home and she got mad and she didn’t buy herself food and then we all went and she was fake laughing with my friends when they said smth “funny” just to feel like she fits in and to make me feel left out. She even just said that maybe we could all come to MY HOUSE and have a sleepover like she was inviting herself into my house and then when yesterday she said maybe we could have a sleepover, I said not at my house and she looked at me rudely and said I never said at your house even though she always says we can have it at my house .The reason I can’t not be her friend is because my friend group and hers’ all go to a dance with me so like idk I can’t get her to not come or smth no , I can’t do that and she called me saying , can you please come into the park, my phone changed the time and I came earlier so please I don’t want to stay alone and I came into the park earlier just for her even though I had smth important to do .

Guys please read it all if you can I know it’s a lot but I need advice I don’t know what to do lease help
Feel free to dm me with a anything or just relpy

[kaileonard590]

hey!! honestly, she’s a bad friend. id drop her

[sunsetdayzz]

Yeah well I can’t…

[CrazyCrochet23]

Ive been in the same situation . If you can, try and stay out of their way as much as possible bc that worked for me! Otherwise idk she seems like a rlly bad friend and i hope u work it out! (sorry for the rlly long paragraph )

[FluffyYarnCreations]

even though her friends still go to dance with you, i still would stop talking to her. maybe just slowly start ignoring her?

[Scarizard]

On on hand, (the part of me says that) you should talk to her about this. Don’t let her think she can get away with it and say that if she does, you won’t communicate with her anymore

But on the other hand, (the part of me) do it back to her. Push and pull her around like a ragdoll and see how she likes it. Then, she might learn (maybe use this as a last resort tho)

[sunsetdayzz]

Ooo maybe

[sunsetdayzz]

Yea

[sunsetdayzz]

I’ll probs do that

[lydiaiscool]

if i were you I would get my friends and you to hang out with her friends so she would feel left out or do what she’s doing to you to her like say why don’t we go to her house an be really annoying

[sunsetdayzz]

yeah

[Bambambam]

If I were you I’d talk to your friend group about how you feel about her, if they’re true friends they will do something about it if they aren’t then try making friends with others. AND REMEMBER we will all get out of our hellhole highschools eventually

[Lilithccroquet]

I would ignore her or talk to her about what you feel isn’t right

[anon84236963]

i’ve had that happen before! what i did was make some new friends and hang with them more than that meanie

[kaileonard590]

i understand feeling like you can’t for whatever reason, but i also believe in the ability to say “i have had enough” voice how you feel, if they can’t respect it. leave. that applies for any friendship or relationship… i’m in a similar but different situation right now myself and i have to try to find a way to friend-break up with someone i’ve known forever

[sunsetdayzz]

Thank you so much