hi! so lately i’ve been thinking… am i genderfluid? idk if you guys know, but i’m non- binary, but some days i js don’t feel comfortable with the label. some days i feel more feminine than masculine, and i’m asking this bc it’d be a mess with my irl friends… they’ve gotten into the habit of using my they/them pronouns, and i don’t want to drop this onto them
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That kinda sounds genderfluid but i can’t decide how you feel and also if you’re friends are real they shouldn’t complain abt you changeung Pronouns to what you thinks for you best at the moment
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This is probably really confusing for you at the moment but if you don’t feel comfortable with the nonbinary term maybe drop it? also my pm is alway open if you wanna talk (I might not answer immediately bc of different time zones just so you know)
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I use he/him and want to be referred to as a male but i dint want to fully transition, things can be fluid without a label… do whatever feels right for you but dont think you need a label to be valid!
I present more feminine most days but thats what makes me feel good and im still a boy to my family and friends whether im “girly” or not
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i’m nonbinary and i normally present more fem but that doesn’t mean i want to use she/her pronouns. just know that the way you dress doesn’t change your pronouns and know that you don’t have to label yourself if you don’t want to. i am nonbinary and queer bc im not sure how to label who im attracted too. you can just be gender queer if you want (ik sometimes labels can be a pain) but saying gender fluid might be easier for people to understand. either way you shouldn’t feel bad about changing your identity or orientation, you’re just exploring yourself
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dude im the exact same way
ive been asking myself that for a while too
honestly, just do what you feel comfy with doing
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