Hey there Ribblrs I don’t think many people Know me but for now im going to go by my username rn I’m dealling with one of the toughest decisions in my entire life recently ive joined ribblr I’ve been helping tons of people with there stuff because it makes me feel good and make me keep my minds off of things but recently my step mother has asked me a decision “if something happens to my dad who do i want to go to” on one hand my step mother has control issues while my real mom is really nice but there is constant stress in the house and arguing I just dont Know what to do I cant just betray my birth mom and I cant just give up on my step mom I need help making this decision from someone hopefully or not with personall expierence I love the ribblr community as everyone is so positive so please help me before i get dtuck in a deep depression because im also dealling with a lot more…
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Please understand I mean this with all compassion - unless there is a solid reason for such planning (if your father is sick for example), your step-mother is exhibiting abusive behavior here.
No child should ever be asked to choose like this. The question is manipulative and absolutely not okay. Is there a counselor at school or another trusted adult you can speak with about this?
Most of all, please know that this stress is temporary. It will get better. 
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