Help me

Help me there is a kid who like likes me, but I just think of him as a friend. What do I do???

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story of my life. everytime that happens I js say ”I didn’t think we were going in that direction, I don’t really want to change the friend relationship and if you want to then maybe we shouldn’t be friends” ik that sounds a little mean but its better than leading him on

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you can say you love him as a friend! This has happened to me before, we’re still friends though

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if he’s confessed to you, just try to let him down gently - say you don’t like him in the same way, but you do like him as a person + friend, and you hope y’all can stay friends.

if he hasn’t said anything… either just pretend it’s not happening and try not to give off signs of like-liking him, or confront him about it if his behavior due to liking you is bothersome, etc.

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He did cuz I figured it out-

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I dealt with that last year so I say just treat him as a normal friend!

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I think I’ll probably do that :3

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This was two weeks ago so its not as relavant now but definitely treat him like normal! If he starts making advances dont be afraid to set boundaries or say “hey that comment you made felt not platonic” or something if you feel uncomfortable ever! Boundaries are important!!

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I was finally able to block him, and my friend overheard him saying he wishes I was his girlfriend…
Now I’m glad I’m being public schooled next year…

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girl ive been there :skull: sounds like u handled it well tho :heart_hands:

sry im now realizing this is crazy late LOL :skull::skull: