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In case anyone wants to know: this is the same friend I busted my ass making a unicorn snake for yo celebrate her 1wk SH free.
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Can I vent here?
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Im so sorry that happened. Ofc you can vent here <3
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So:
A few days ago, my dog went to a new home because we couldn’t care for him as he needed. I wasn’t too beat up about it at first but I went upstairs a few minutes ago to get changed and then I started uncontrollably crying without reason. This dog was my one way to de-stress after a long day at school but now he’s gone so I’ve become unhealthily addicted to crochet to the point where I do it in class and get in trouble sometimes for it.
I can’t properly de-stress anymore and I can’t control my emotions anymore and Idk what to do. She is my only good friend and she turned me away when I was vulnerable even when I helped her when she was vulnerable. I have severe trust issues linking to my past and CANNOT FOR THE LIFE OF ME make friends. I’m on my own now
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omg im so sorry, that must have been really hard. I’m always here if you need to talk :)
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I’m so used to being a rock for others to kick about when they needed and then I get cast away when I no longer serve a purpose that I neglect myself. When I’m on my own, everything I’ve been locking away rushes back at once, and with no outlet, I’m an absolute wreck.
I’m overly clingy to the things I have which is why I have no friends pretty much. Me being overly protective over people I trust is seen as a 
because ‘I can’t take a joke’ and if someone makes a joke at one of my friends, I jump in ready to rip their head off and get scolded by my friends and the jokester both at once
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Wow it sounds like you’re going through alot. You should try talking to someone you trust, wether that be family or a therapist. Remember, you are an amazing person and it’s your mental health that matters the most 
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I don’t like talking about my emotions, it makes me feel selfsish
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Hey, you’re not selfish for talking about how you’re feeling! It’s ok to feel that way that way though, I’m here to listen whenever you’re ready, no pressure!
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Was crying while typing and my mam gave me a 15min interrogation
I feel a bit better. A BIT
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I’m glad you at least feel A BIT better :)
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I understand that feeling and I used to be the same if you need someone to talk to message me.
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Yeah you could always message me too 
I know what it’s like to be the rock for people, but not have a rock to sit on yourself. I’m just trying to be your rock rn
(Sorry if that didn’t make sense 
)
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Thats not a friend if you cant vent and be free with them at all times! A friend is someone whos there for you when youre happy, when youre down and everything in between. Dont let people treat you that way and use you as someone to rely on when you cant rely on them when you need them. Know your worth because youre loved in many ways and better people will come your way
Of course you can always vent here !! No question about it. Ribblr is like family and me too! If you need something let me know. Stay positive through everything 
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Im sorry you had to give away your dog to a new family. I know thats tuff but though it all, you remember and always will remember the memories you had with your dog. Dont be so hard on yourself. We all go through something and emotions when we lose someone or something. Its normal. Maybe you can visit your dog every now and then at the new family ? At least you would see him/her sometimes but if you cant do that, its okay just remember too they he/she is going to be well taken care of it. And thats a great thing no matter the situation
As of friends, i think with everyone it can be hard finding that person that you can depend on. And trust worthiness because it is hard to find them . But you will! Dont get up on that. Im in my 20s and i still dont have people to depend on. But, when you dont you have to depend on yourself! Be you, do you. And the right things for you will come
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No it made perfect sense. I don’t want to use you tho. Humans are made to be loved, not used
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No I can’t see him anymore
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If you need to vent I’m here for you
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The thing is, she’s typically a good friend but she has her days, as does everyone. Whenever I talk bout people like this I feel 
y because they ‘dont deserve it’
I have a difficulty in breaking off friendships and cutting out toxic people BC I can never tell if they’re like it to just me or it’s their personality.
I tried to break things off with a friend about a year ago nearly and I was VERY flaky with it. Can’t tell if she wants to fix the relationship or is trying to play me again because she played me once after the breakapart
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