Hahaha! 
I actually dream about the different outcomes if I were to have said this or that in long ago situations, or responded thus and such instead of how I did or didn’t at the actual event. For some reason it has helped me laugh at myself more and stress or be anxious about it less! Quite cathartic!
Hugs, Valori​
sorry i dont understand<3
Wow! You have a great perspective! Mine is full of regret. Like I can “undo” anything 
Yes, I spent too many years in regret and even self-recrimination. However, I have come to realize that things that have happened to me, around me, or even my family, have a purpose in the Lord’s plans for me and mine. So my regretting them, grumbling about them etc. therefore diminishes the Lord’s plans for me, and in essence is like me belly aching to Him over His choices for me! That does NOT honor Him, doesn’t show any trust in Him at all. This hasn’t been a quick change in mental and emotional processing for me! Not by a long shot! It’s taken considerable prayer, patience and the willingness to look for the good in every situation, no matter how hard or difficult!
I don’t want to be in my teens again, but I definitely have some ideas for my 20s. I had a great time, but I have some even better ideas.
I do the same!